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Is my new bf gay just because he doesn't masturbate or watch porn?

10 doctors weighed in across 3 answers

Unlikely: Isn't it possible that you are so satisfying to your bf that he doesn't need these other outlets? He may of course have a low sexual drive but it certainly does not indicate gayness if he is sexually normal in other regards. You must be with him a lot to know about these activities, and so you could probably eliminate gayness by observation.

Answered 12/5/2014

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Dr. Heidi Fowler answered

Specializes in Psychiatry

Not linked: Masturbation & pornography have nothing to do with sexual orientation.

Answered 8/19/2019

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Dr. George Klauber answered

Specializes in Pediatric Urology

Ask him!: Some men don't masturbate or watch porn on principal or for religious cultural reasons. Or is he inhibited about sex with you. You should be able to discuss all matters relating to sex if he is your BF, after all UR 36 years-old. On the other hand he may just want to be your friend without having sex.

Answered 12/31/2014

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