Am i gay if when ever i look at tighty whities i get an erection?

Maybe...maybe not: If you have sexually feeling toward people of the same sex, maybe u are gay. Some people are bisexual--they enjoy the sexual comany of both genders. Is the feeling something new or has been there many years and u just never had the courage to ask/let someone else know? Talk to a friend/family, therapist, doc, counselor etc...They maybe able to help sort things out for you. Good luck.

Maybe, maybe not: No two men are the same. Many men get excited when their team scores a touchdown, watching a man ride a bull at a rodeo, seeing a military parade, riding the subway and getting jostled, or anything else that says "being male is great." which it is. Only a few percent of us prefer to partner with another man, but that's fine too. Talk with somebody wise and understanding, and be glad to be you.