20 y/o male in long-distance/long-term relationship with a problem with orgasms. takes me very long to orgasm, if at all before we stop. any advice?

Consider?psychologic: Long distance relationships are frequently difficult on both sides. You already realize U have an anxiety disorder which could also be related to your problme, as can pressures of college. Suggest U consider counselling. Your primary family Dr. or College Dr. might be able to direct U for appropriate counseling. Good Luck.