Is there any thing i can take before sex to my me wetter because it hurt?

Lubrication: You are not in any way abnormal. This is very common. If foreplay does not stimulate enough self lubrication then you, like most other sexually active adults, need to add lubrication to you or your partner to enjoy sexual intercourse.

Yes.: You can use topical water based or silicone based lubricants and topical low dose estrogen vaginal creams. It needs to be applied before sex.