Any advice? i have been having two red dots that are pretty large on my hand for years now. they don't hurt but they also don't go away?

Don't worry: Impossible, of course, to say without seeing them. But, the first thing I'd probably tell you is "don't worry", since you've had these for years, they are most likely benign, i.e. not a scary bad thing. HOWEVER, if they are still growing or if there are any changes happening to them, or if you just want a better idea what they are, see your doctor or dermatologist for better evaluation.