Help! need to know if there's a way i could increase my sex drive?

A better question...: The right question is what is causing a decrease in your sex drive. Decreased desire can have many, many causes, both psychological and physiological. It would be useful to have some idea about the likely cause before looking for a solution. A good place to start would be a frank conversation with your doctor and a good medical workup to address any potential medical/health issues.