I would like a males perspective on abstaining till marriage?

A worthy ideal, but: All young men masturbate to climax and not doing this is impossible. Very few men can pass up an offer of sex before marriage, any more than you or I can refrain from scratching when we itch. Oral sex lets many couples save the best for the special night. A marriage with no physical intimacy beforehand would be exceptional, and to urge this will invite ridicule from almost all men nowadays.