Question 1

how to get my husband interested in sex?

Accepted Answer

Depends: It depends on why he lost interest. Libido is complicated. Stress is probably the most common cause. Stress could be at work or at home. Low hormones, medication, frequent masturbation, fatigue, lack of sleep and a very long list of other issues can contribute to loss of libido. Start by talking to him with your clothes on in a low stress setting. Check with your family doc about a sex therapist.

Question 2

i am not virgin.. but i have not done sex since last 2years.. if i get married my husband will or wont know about it..

Accepted Answer

Likely will suspect: Many cultures use the presence of an intact hymen as the gold standard for virginity. You may have never had one or lost it through non sexual contact, but its absence would lead to suspicion. It would be best not to hide the facts when and if you find someone you want to share life with.

Question 3

will my future husband get to know that i am not virgin and i had sex before? is there anyway i can protect myself for not knowing anybody about it.?

Accepted Answer

Possible is up to U: Speak to your gynecologist , by surgical procedure some restoration of hymn like tissue is possible , the person should marry for what you are , most of men don't care for your past , the future is the one they are interested , good luck in your pursuit

Question 4

my husband is 22 and can not last during sex and i'm not getting satisfied . if he ejeculat one time he can not get it back hard again what can we do?

Accepted Answer

This is common: Your husband is experiencing premature ejaculation which is very common especially in young males. After a male ejaculates, there is a normal period of latency where it is difficult to ejaculate until that period subsides, which may last 30 min or so.

Question 5

how often should me and my husband have sex to get pregnant?

Accepted Answer

During ovulation: No specific number I can give you.  However, mid-cycle (for most women with the standard 28-day cycle--around the time of ovulation) is when you're most fertile (e.g. egg released).  BBT (basal body temperature) charting with a slight increase in body temperature (about 0.5 deg. F) can indicate ovulation and/or OTC (over the counter) ovulation kits work great as well.  Good luck!

Question 6

if i don't want sex with my husband should i jsut go ahead so he doesn't get mad?

Accepted Answer

MAJOR issues HERE: Not wanting sex is a major issue within a relationship and needs to be dealt with soon. 
First communication needs to open with 'i am not interested because....." and if he he 'gets mad' and shows a tendency to violence then get out of there!  good marital counselling may save this marriage but there is work to be done.  Hope it works out!

Question 7

will my future husband get to know i had sex before and i am not virgin? how can i protect or defend myself for this?

Accepted Answer

Marry the right man: That depends partly on his own sexual experience. A man who is not himself a virgin is more likely to be able to tell the difference.  There are surgeons who can re-create an artificial hymen, so that women will appear to be virgins on their wedding night.  But far better would be to marry a man who loves you,  who you an be honest with, and who your are not afraid of.

Question 8

i am 29 years old and my husband and i are trying to have a baby, what can i do to make sure i get pregnant over and above sex?

Accepted Answer

See details: You have sex every other day for 5 days leading to the ovulation day which is the middle day of your menstrual cycle if you have regular cycles provided that your partner has normal semen analysis.

Question 9

my husband does not have a hard eraction during sex he loses it very soon sometimes we try to hav sex but he does not get eracted. can u please help me?

Accepted Answer

Erectile dysfunction: Your husbands condition is very common.  He needs to get a few tests to see exactly what is causing his problem, and there are several medications and treatments that can help him and you have an active and enjoyable sex life.  Best wishes.

Question 10

why would my husbands penis get swollen after sex?

Accepted Answer

Penis: Without examining him it is difficult to respond, but swelling usually occurs due to inflammation.  This can occur with trauma, allergy to something you may be using vaginally, or overly aggressive sexual activity.  If this continues and is disturbing go and have him see a doctor.  Good luck.

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Will my future husband get to know that i am not virgin and i had sex before? is there anyway i can protect myself for not knowing anybody about it.?

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My husband is 22 and can not last during sex and i'm not getting satisfied . if he ejeculat one time he can not get it back hard again what can we do?

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How often should me and my husband have sex to get pregnant?

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If i don't want sex with my husband should i jsut go ahead so he doesn't get mad?

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Will my future husband get to know i had sex before and i am not virgin? how can i protect or defend myself for this?

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I am 29 years old and my husband and i are trying to have a baby, what can i do to make sure i get pregnant over and above sex?

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My husband does not have a hard eraction during sex he loses it very soon sometimes we try to hav sex but he does not get eracted. can u please help me?

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Why would my husbands penis get swollen after sex?

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