Is it ok that im not getting the HPV vaccine? Teen boys don't need it, mom said

No. Current approach is to immunize all teenagers to prevent the spread of hpv .The disease may cause penile, anal and throat cancer in men and is the cause of cervical cancer in women. Hpv is a sexually transmitted disease and it is estimated that 70% of these cancers will disappear with vaccination.
Depends. First it should have been marketed to boys not girls this would have helped prevent anal cancer in the gay male group as well as protected women. If you are going to be sexually active prior to marraige then you should get it.