My question is do you think I have alcoholism? 2-3 glasses of wint 4 times per week

Have you ever. Tried to cutdown? Are you aggravated when people talk about your drinking? Have you ever felt guilty about your drinking? Have you ever needed an "eye opener", or a glass of wine in the am? Addiction is about more than quantity of drinking.
What do you think? Have you lost control of your drinking? Have you experienced unmanageability? You might want to attend an open meeting of alcoholics anonymous and see if you identify with those who see themselves as alcoholics.