Do anorexics or bulimia get more sympathy from others?

Sadly. I don't know if you mean which person gets the most sympathy? Someone with bulimia or someone with anorexia? If that is your question, why would it matter? It shouldn't. We are all sad when our patients die, and feel bad for their families.
These are very. Serious and deadly diseases that require active, aggressive, long term treated, not sympathy!