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How do I cope with having a child with birth defects?
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Dr. James Ferguson
Pediatrics
2 doctors agree
In brief: Become informed
The common responses to a birth defect runs the list of shock, disbelief, anger, depression and, over time a resolution & reorganization of your life & thinking.
It is often helpful to learn as much about the defect/s, thoughts on origin, possibility of recurrrance, genetic contribution, etc. Meeting other parents who have been thru the same process may help, though i find most won't try for years.

In brief: Become informed
The common responses to a birth defect runs the list of shock, disbelief, anger, depression and, over time a resolution & reorganization of your life & thinking.
It is often helpful to learn as much about the defect/s, thoughts on origin, possibility of recurrrance, genetic contribution, etc. Meeting other parents who have been thru the same process may help, though i find most won't try for years.
Dr. James Ferguson
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Dr. Marilynn Frederiksen
Early intervention programs help with your child's development and help you care for your child.
Dr. Danae Steele
Obstetrics & Gynecology - Maternal Fetal Medicine
In brief: Get support!
First, find support! its hard enough being a parent and even harder if your child has serious health issues.
Find other parents of children with similar problems, either on-line or in your community. Find doctors who you trust for your child. And, learn as much as you can about your child's birth defect and what can be done to help your child function as well as possible.

In brief: Get support!
First, find support! its hard enough being a parent and even harder if your child has serious health issues.
Find other parents of children with similar problems, either on-line or in your community. Find doctors who you trust for your child. And, learn as much as you can about your child's birth defect and what can be done to help your child function as well as possible.
Dr. Danae Steele
Dr. Danae Steele
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