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If candy and flowers can't get your wife attention what, could u do if everything you tried fail.?
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Dr. Mort (Doc) Orman
Internal Medicine
13 doctors agree
In brief: Be More Direct
When all else fails, consider the direct approach.
You may want to approach your wife and ask her what you could do to please her. Or ask her if you've done anything to upset her or turn her off. Before you do this, however, make sure you're willing to hear her answers. And be sure you're willing to work with her to work through whatever issues she believes might be going on. Best wishes.

In brief: Be More Direct
When all else fails, consider the direct approach.
You may want to approach your wife and ask her what you could do to please her. Or ask her if you've done anything to upset her or turn her off. Before you do this, however, make sure you're willing to hear her answers. And be sure you're willing to work with her to work through whatever issues she believes might be going on. Best wishes.
Dr. Mort (Doc) Orman
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2 comments
Dr. Luis Matos
Read Dr. Chapman's "Five Love Languages" or at least both of you take the test: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/love/ You may think giving presents is and expression of Love but if this is not her Love Language, you will fail miserably. This really helped me.
Dr. Paige Gutheil
Love the suggestion of reading "Five Love Languages." It is important to express love in the way that makes your wife feel the most loved. It might surprise you to know that she would much rather sit and watch TV with you than get flowers for example.
Dr. William Walsh
Addiction Medicine
In brief: Pay attention to her
If she is ignoring your overtures, pay attention to her (instead of trying to get her attention directed to you).
See what needs doing at home and do it. Keep your word. Show up early. Be dependable, hardworking, steadfast. Also, seek your validation (for yourself) someplace other than your wife (be that in your own activities, your religion, art, etc). Good luck.

In brief: Pay attention to her
If she is ignoring your overtures, pay attention to her (instead of trying to get her attention directed to you).
See what needs doing at home and do it. Keep your word. Show up early. Be dependable, hardworking, steadfast. Also, seek your validation (for yourself) someplace other than your wife (be that in your own activities, your religion, art, etc). Good luck.
Dr. William Walsh
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Dr. Klaus d Lessnau
Internal Medicine - Pulmonary Critical Care
In brief: Try
May be she likes sildenafil?

In brief: Try
May be she likes sildenafil?
Dr. Klaus d Lessnau
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Dr. S. Yvonne Conner
General Practice
In brief: Connect Intimately
I would sit down and talk to her. Honest communication is one of the most important things in building trust in a relationship.
Positive intention behind the flowers and candy is helpful too. If your communication is strained then perhaps you could seek the help of a counselor/neutral party. It is vital that you strengthen your communication with your partner and do something fun together.

In brief: Connect Intimately
I would sit down and talk to her. Honest communication is one of the most important things in building trust in a relationship.
Positive intention behind the flowers and candy is helpful too. If your communication is strained then perhaps you could seek the help of a counselor/neutral party. It is vital that you strengthen your communication with your partner and do something fun together.
Dr. S. Yvonne Conner
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