I have a port wine birthmark. Is there any treatmentavailable to get it removed or am I scarred for life?

Not necessarily. There are good laser treatments for many of these. I would check with a nearby university plastic surgery department--many have clinics dedicated to this problem.
Laser options. I would seek a dermatologist or laser surgical clinic who offer vascular-type laser treatments. Sometimes very dramatic reductions are possible.
Laser. Advances in laser technology have made this a treatable condition with minimal scarring and no surgery especially if instituted earlier in life.