Wife= mate lose wt
If you feel that you are being affected in a negative way---med conditions, high blood pressure
, can't exercise
, short of breath, don't sleep
well, don't like the way you appear, the weight affects your relationship; you may want to change.
But, you, not your wife, need to want to make the changes. If you are not ready to make the changes necessary; no one else can.I hope you are ready.