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How can I reduce vaginal wetness during intercourse? Apparently this makes my man go soft. Am I the problem?

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Dr. Otto Placik
Surgery - Plastics
2 doctors agree

In brief: Vaginal wetness lube

This is an interesting problem reported by a few of my patients for which there are few options.
On the more radical side, I have heard of gynecologists performing cervical surgery to reduce the secretions. There are no widely available vaginal drying agents although a various agents have been used off label. In some instances vaginoplasty has been used to reduce the caliber & increase friction.

In brief: Vaginal wetness lube

This is an interesting problem reported by a few of my patients for which there are few options.
On the more radical side, I have heard of gynecologists performing cervical surgery to reduce the secretions. There are no widely available vaginal drying agents although a various agents have been used off label. In some instances vaginoplasty has been used to reduce the caliber & increase friction.
Dr. Otto Placik
Dr. Otto Placik
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Dr. James Carter
Obstetrics & Gynecology
1 doctor agrees

In brief: It should not

That is normal and is a sign that you are aroused and normal for you; possibly he should take more time with heavy petting and stimulating you in areas that you would like and that he would like.
Normally lubrication is a good thing.

In brief: It should not

That is normal and is a sign that you are aroused and normal for you; possibly he should take more time with heavy petting and stimulating you in areas that you would like and that he would like.
Normally lubrication is a good thing.
Dr. James Carter
Dr. James Carter
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Dr. David Finke
Obstetrics & Gynecology
1 doctor agrees

In brief: I agree

And i wouldn't recommend trying to reduce the natural lubrication that is supposed to occur during foreplay and intercourse.
If the wetness is more watery, you should be evaluated by a urogynecologist or urologist.

In brief: I agree

And i wouldn't recommend trying to reduce the natural lubrication that is supposed to occur during foreplay and intercourse.
If the wetness is more watery, you should be evaluated by a urogynecologist or urologist.
Dr. David Finke
Dr. David Finke
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1 doctor agrees

In brief: Man losing erection

It sounds like your partner is having difficulty maintaining his erection.
There can be a variety of causes for this and he should have a medical evaluation.

In brief: Man losing erection

It sounds like your partner is having difficulty maintaining his erection.
There can be a variety of causes for this and he should have a medical evaluation.
Dr. Richard David
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