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Im almost 36. My husband is bit scared to have sex because he is a virgin ( he is 38) im getting scared he never will and I will be too old for kids. ?

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Dr. Deborah Clark
Obstetrics & Gynecology
4 doctors agree

In brief: Therapist evaluation

Initimacy difficulties can be of a complicated nature.
Medical scientists that specialize in this field often state that 90% of sex occurs between the ears, or simply put is a result of brain processing of information. He may have some barriers that may be affecting his ability to express himself in this manner. You should seek professional help by a therapist who specializes in sexual counsel.

In brief: Therapist evaluation

Initimacy difficulties can be of a complicated nature.
Medical scientists that specialize in this field often state that 90% of sex occurs between the ears, or simply put is a result of brain processing of information. He may have some barriers that may be affecting his ability to express himself in this manner. You should seek professional help by a therapist who specializes in sexual counsel.
Dr. Deborah Clark
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Dr. Michael Opsahl
Fertility Medicine
2 doctors agree

In brief: Fear of Sex

Your husband seems to have an unnatural fear which should be addressed with a professional.
I suspect you will both be involved and it may take some time. If he will provide a sperm sample with masturbation, then you could have insemination and become pregnant. Your are correct to be worried about age. We can test for your fertility potential. Get help and you can be successful.

In brief: Fear of Sex

Your husband seems to have an unnatural fear which should be addressed with a professional.
I suspect you will both be involved and it may take some time. If he will provide a sperm sample with masturbation, then you could have insemination and become pregnant. Your are correct to be worried about age. We can test for your fertility potential. Get help and you can be successful.
Dr. Michael Opsahl
Dr. Michael Opsahl
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