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I can orgasm with masterbation of all forms but never w intercourse..Im 40 so its not assumed to be an all man issue..Help!?

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Dr. Jeffrey Junig
Psychiatry
8 doctors agree

In brief: Mind messing

The fact that everything 'works' suggests the problem is in your mind.
Maybe your sex activity is at odds with your faith or upbringing; maybe you aren't fully committed to your partner; maybe you feel guilty... Psychotherapy is the approach for an issue like this, to put words on the feelings that get in your way. There is a conflict inside your mind; therapy can sometimes find it.

In brief: Mind messing

The fact that everything 'works' suggests the problem is in your mind.
Maybe your sex activity is at odds with your faith or upbringing; maybe you aren't fully committed to your partner; maybe you feel guilty... Psychotherapy is the approach for an issue like this, to put words on the feelings that get in your way. There is a conflict inside your mind; therapy can sometimes find it.
Dr. Jeffrey Junig
Dr. Jeffrey Junig
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5 doctors agree

In brief: Anatomy

Approximately 40% of women can not reach orgasm with vaginal stimulation alone.
These woman require clitoral stimulation and it may be that your anatomy does not allow adequate clitoral stimulation with intercourse. A considerate partner can provide both if you guide the partner in what you need.

In brief: Anatomy

Approximately 40% of women can not reach orgasm with vaginal stimulation alone.
These woman require clitoral stimulation and it may be that your anatomy does not allow adequate clitoral stimulation with intercourse. A considerate partner can provide both if you guide the partner in what you need.
Dr. William Drescher
Dr. William Drescher
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