Tongue web piercing is very badly swollen after a year of having it done to the point where I cant talk eat or drink so hurting my ears?? And the swel

Remove the piercing. It sounds like this may be badly infected, at the very least you should remove the piercing jewelry for a few months to let it heal. If your pain and swelling do not resolve, you need to see a doctor to look at your tongue.
Need to see a doc. Swelling of the tongue that affects eating , drinking, and talking related to your tongue piercing is a problem that needs to be addressed by a healthcare professional ASAP.