I'm 20 years old, I recently had my first child. The doc did an Esepitomy (however you spell it). We waited six weeks to have sex after having our daughter. That first time was great but slowly went down hill from there. Now my vagina feels loose and I don

Pelvic exam/kegel. I suggest a GYN exam and also Kegel exercises 2-3 times daily ( squeezing gluteal ( butt) muscles together and holding 10-15 sec) . The episiotomy, if done correctly, should actually tighten the vagina once healed. r GYN and start with 5 min 2-3 times daily with Kegel, working up to 15 minutes.