Want to lose my virginity but don't want to bare the pain. Is there any medicine to numb the pain or anything to do? I am super sensitive down there

Don't Rush It- You'd be better off slowly adjusting and accomodating to the experience over time rather than just numbing it and risking unperceived injury. It will just take a sensitive partner, some lubrication and slow progression, maybe over a few to several days. Just think "no hurry"--in the right situation it will actually promote meaningful communication and actually get you closer to each other.