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I feel edgy,extreme anger and depression.I have problem with one family member i cant ignore them.i use bad words and regret after doing.Family great?

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Dr. Milton Alvis, jr
Preventive Medicine
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In brief: Compliments stating

feelings, crucial for problem solving.
Next sort out the reasons for fear (edgy), anger (likely justified on some basis) & depression (giving up on self & ability to confront & solve problems). To help, need more specifics on problem family member, why not able to "ignore" them despite problems. Correct, angry swear language commonly inflames, not solves. How is family great & not solving problem?

In brief: Compliments stating

feelings, crucial for problem solving.
Next sort out the reasons for fear (edgy), anger (likely justified on some basis) & depression (giving up on self & ability to confront & solve problems). To help, need more specifics on problem family member, why not able to "ignore" them despite problems. Correct, angry swear language commonly inflames, not solves. How is family great & not solving problem?
Dr. Milton Alvis, jr
Dr. Milton Alvis, jr
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Dr. Milton Alvis, jr
Suggest study: http://goo.gl/jTrRl6 for insights about anger and how to excell beyond this trap.
Dr. Stephen Kibrick
Clinical Psychology
1 doctor agrees

In brief: Anger/Depression

You are experiencing anger/depression and feeling guilty and irritable, especially in your dealings with this one family member. Can you talk with someone else in the family about this? Do you live with this person, or just see them occasionally? If this issue is impacting the quality of your life, you might benefit from talking with a psychologist who treats families, using CBT psychotherapy.

In brief: Anger/Depression

You are experiencing anger/depression and feeling guilty and irritable, especially in your dealings with this one family member. Can you talk with someone else in the family about this? Do you live with this person, or just see them occasionally? If this issue is impacting the quality of your life, you might benefit from talking with a psychologist who treats families, using CBT psychotherapy.
Dr. Stephen Kibrick
Dr. Stephen Kibrick
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In brief: Examination

Do you have any disturbances of sleep, appetite, and energy ? Do you have disturbances of attention, concentration, and memory.
Have any other realms of life been affected by modified decision making skills ? Were there any long or short term family dynamics that could be contributing to your irritability and depression ? Do you have any medical problems that may have recently become unstable ?

In brief: Examination

Do you have any disturbances of sleep, appetite, and energy ? Do you have disturbances of attention, concentration, and memory.
Have any other realms of life been affected by modified decision making skills ? Were there any long or short term family dynamics that could be contributing to your irritability and depression ? Do you have any medical problems that may have recently become unstable ?
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Dr. Belinda Stillman
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