Birth control makes me feel horrible. I gain weight have no sex drive! We tried condoms and I get infections, is there any else to prevent pregnancy?

Talk 2 you Ob/Gyn. IUDs can be effective for many women along with spermicides to be even safer. It is important to find as safe a way to have relations as possible to avoid destroying your sex drive, which is important for our physical and mental health.
Yes. You have many options besides condoms and oral contraceptives. See: http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/birth-control/in-depth/birth-control-options/art-20045571 Take care.