6yr use of homade soap water enema/fleet products EVERDAY cant go #2 without using. Some reason I cant go now even after use not constipated soft BM?

Chronic constipation. Chronic constipation is very common. It is not necessary to have a bowel movement every day. Using enemas on a daily basis will not help the problem, and can be harmful. You should see a gastroenterologist to evaluate why you are constipated and to make a long-term plan to treat it without using enemas. I would increase the amount of fiber in your diet in the meantime. Good luck.