What is the best way to tell your dr about many symptoms are happining, without the dr saying its "stress"?

We all have stress. Before your examination clearly detail in the form of journal or notes what exactly the symptoms are. A chronology or time sequence of how they have unraveled can be helpful as well. Asking for a specific diagnosis - one that truly fits - is certainly reasonable. If you do not feel understood, persevere with questions or requests for further evaluation and if necessary a referral to a specialist.
"These are stressors. For me and i need to find out how to deal with them" should be how you approach your doctor. Knowing what stresses you is a big step toward clearing them away. Get started as soon as you can.