First line therapy is bulking stools with fiber and water. Warm baths will sooth your pain.
Second line would be a calcium channel blocker cream such as Nifedipine or diltiazem. Often these are combined with a topical analgesic like lidocaine. While Botox is an option, it has lower cure rate and higher recurrence rate than surgery which is the gold standard.
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