So I should go to the er. Proctoligist did 2, exams finger n something long that hurt. He said shouldn't b serious. Y taking so long to heal?

See a Dr. Many things could cause these symptoms, from something "mild" like a tear or inflammed hemorrhoid. Other times it could be from an infection (prostate?) or even an abscess. Rarely this could be from a growing tumor. To help you rest better (both physically and mentally) I suggest seeing someone...