How often can you/ should you massage the prostate when u have prostatitis. And how do you massage it? How do u find it? I'm 99.9% sure I have it.

Usually that is. Not needed in treating prostatitis. It is done by inserted a gloved finger into the rectum. The back of the prostate is just in front of the rectum. Unless one is a contursionist, hard to to by oneself.