What can be done to help control pain in hip from osteoarthritis? I take the standard prescribed meds with no relief.

Maybe injections. Sometimes the hip joint can be injected with anti-inflammatory medication.
Try NSAIDs first. Osteoarthritis involving the hip can be very disabling, especially when it is severe. Nsaids and pain relievers can help but if your arthritis is severe then a hip replacement may be the only viable option even at age 49.
Many things... Physical therapy, OTC medications such as tylenol (acetaminophen) and non-steroidals, weight reduction and activity modifications are the the mainstay of treatment before considering an operation. Treatments that have not worked initially may work in combination with other modalities. .