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Why is this girl I kindof like playing tug of war with me showing interest one day and none the next?
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Dr. Pamela Pappas
Psychiatry
2 doctors agree
In brief: "Kind of like"?
If you only "kind of like" her, it sounds like you and this girl are playing similar flirtation games with each other. A little interest, peeking to see the reaction, etc.
Depending on your ages and experience with relationships, this could be normal -- like in high school or college. People might do this when initially trying to figure out if the other "likes" them -- inconsistent until "sure.".

In brief: "Kind of like"?
If you only "kind of like" her, it sounds like you and this girl are playing similar flirtation games with each other. A little interest, peeking to see the reaction, etc.
Depending on your ages and experience with relationships, this could be normal -- like in high school or college. People might do this when initially trying to figure out if the other "likes" them -- inconsistent until "sure.".
Dr. Pamela Pappas
Dr. Pamela Pappas
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Dr. Bassam Amawi
Psychiatry
2 doctors agree
In brief: Why?
This is a difficult to answer question , and may be u have to have a serious talk with her

In brief: Why?
This is a difficult to answer question , and may be u have to have a serious talk with her
Dr. Bassam Amawi
Dr. Bassam Amawi
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Dr. Maritza Baez
Family Medicine
1 doctor agrees
In brief: Dunno til you ask
Tell her how you feel when she does that, & focus on yourself and your feelings or she may become defensive or just shut down.
You may feel rejected or unwanted because she doesn't show interest. Physical contact is important to any intimate relationship. Ask her if everything is ok. Maybe she is depressed or has low self esteem. Keep an open line of communication.

In brief: Dunno til you ask
Tell her how you feel when she does that, & focus on yourself and your feelings or she may become defensive or just shut down.
You may feel rejected or unwanted because she doesn't show interest. Physical contact is important to any intimate relationship. Ask her if everything is ok. Maybe she is depressed or has low self esteem. Keep an open line of communication.
Dr. Maritza Baez
Dr. Maritza Baez
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Dr. Marianna Post
Family Medicine
In brief: Girl's nature
Not uncommon with girls.
The question is do you want to play this game with her? You can do the same.

In brief: Girl's nature
Not uncommon with girls.
The question is do you want to play this game with her? You can do the same.
Dr. Marianna Post
Dr. Marianna Post
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