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I'm concerned my best girlfriend may be a lesbian that has a crush on me but i'm straight, what should I do?
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Dr. Alan Ali
Psychiatry
2 doctors agree
In brief: Girlfriend
Be assertive so that u can preserve boundaries between u two and maintain good friendship.

In brief: Girlfriend
Be assertive so that u can preserve boundaries between u two and maintain good friendship.
Dr. Alan Ali
Dr. Alan Ali
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Dr. Bassam Amawi
Psychiatry
1 doctor agrees
In brief: Lesbian ?
Explain to her nicely that u consider her a good friend and always will and that u r straight

In brief: Lesbian ?
Explain to her nicely that u consider her a good friend and always will and that u r straight
Dr. Bassam Amawi
Dr. Bassam Amawi
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Dr. Donald Hazlett
Psychiatry
In brief: Share your concern.
You can tell her what you're thinking.
If you are uncomfortable doing that then talk about your relationships with men and who you are attracted to or are seriously dating. Most likely when you do that her crush on you most likely will fade away. If not then you have to be direct and let her know you want her friendship but are not interested in a romantic relationship with her.

In brief: Share your concern.
You can tell her what you're thinking.
If you are uncomfortable doing that then talk about your relationships with men and who you are attracted to or are seriously dating. Most likely when you do that her crush on you most likely will fade away. If not then you have to be direct and let her know you want her friendship but are not interested in a romantic relationship with her.
Dr. Donald Hazlett
Dr. Donald Hazlett
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