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I feel like my girlfriend isn't "fair" with sex I always go down on her and she doesn't reciprocate, am I being too picky?

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Dr. Bassam Amawi
Psychiatry
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In brief: May be.?

And may be she is shy.
Talk with each other how u like to do things.

In brief: May be.?

And may be she is shy.
Talk with each other how u like to do things.
Dr. Bassam Amawi
Dr. Bassam Amawi
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Dr. Donald Hazlett
Psychiatry

In brief: You might be.

There must be things you both enjoy.
Start there. A good sexual relationship takes time to mature and it can't be forced. Talk to her about it only when you are not in the midst of sexual activity. Like a good arguement, it's not wise to try to rationally discuss a sexual problem in the middle of having sex. By the way, fairness doesn't apply to sex. Don't count - one for you - one for me.

In brief: You might be.

There must be things you both enjoy.
Start there. A good sexual relationship takes time to mature and it can't be forced. Talk to her about it only when you are not in the midst of sexual activity. Like a good arguement, it's not wise to try to rationally discuss a sexual problem in the middle of having sex. By the way, fairness doesn't apply to sex. Don't count - one for you - one for me.
Dr. Donald Hazlett
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