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The man i've been with for 11 years wants me to still verbally express every time I want to have sex, how can I change this?

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Dr. Bassam Amawi
Psychiatry
2 doctors agree

In brief: Strange?

May be he is concerned about being accused of having sex with u without consent , or he may feels aroused when u say that and feels wanted .
Talk about this issue and if it is bothering u try to talk to a sex therapist

In brief: Strange?

May be he is concerned about being accused of having sex with u without consent , or he may feels aroused when u say that and feels wanted .
Talk about this issue and if it is bothering u try to talk to a sex therapist
Dr. Bassam Amawi
Dr. Bassam Amawi
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Dr. Johnnie Strickland Jr
Family Medicine

In brief: You can't

You cannot change another person unless they wish to be changed.
Men are usually very responsive to physical stimulation. I suspect he is not likely to turn you down if you make your wishes known physically without saying a word.

In brief: You can't

You cannot change another person unless they wish to be changed.
Men are usually very responsive to physical stimulation. I suspect he is not likely to turn you down if you make your wishes known physically without saying a word.
Dr. Johnnie Strickland Jr
Dr. Johnnie Strickland Jr
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