How can I get my mom who I caregive for to listen?

Show love. I am not sure how you tell her what you want her to do; however if she feels that you love her very much and what ever you are telling her is for her own good and well being, she probably will listen; you are probably showing her already that you love her very much, but most of the time parents do not want to see themselves too dependent on their children (assuming no cognitive deficits).