Are there groups out there for problem gamblers?

Yes. There is gamblers anonymous, you could do a web search for meetings in your area.
GA. Gamblers anonymous groups are available in most big cities or places with casinos. Look them up on the internet.
Definitely. The national council on problem gambling (http://www. Ncpgambling. Org/i4a/pages/index. Cfm? Pageid=1) will direct you to various kinds of assistance, at varying levels of intensity, suited to you.