I had sex with a condom and the girl was bleeding the condom didn't break but did I put myself at risk for h.I.V I also had oral sex without a condom

You. You indicated that you had oral sex without a condom. Although, not common, the HIV virus can be transmitted when performing or receiving oral sex.
Use. Use of a condom is a pretty good way to prevent sexually transmitted diseases, including hiv. In fact, short of abstinence, it's the best protection you can get. The fact that your partner had a bit of bleeding does not increase your small risk.