Is there something wrong with my husband my husband is 23 years old and has trouble urinating. He sometimes has "false alarms" where it feels like he has to pee but then really doesn't, it takes him a really long time to start peeing (and not just when he

Your. Your husband's symptoms are very concerning especially since he is so young. You might want to have him see a urologist for evaluation. Best wishes.
The. The most common cause of this type of symptoms in a young male is a urethral stricture which is a narrowing in the urinary tube that gets urine out of the bladder. I agree that your husband needs to see a urologist.