My clit has been really itchy for 2 days now its red and a little swollen I have tried taking a hot shower and it worked for a little bit

Redness. Redness and itchiness is concerning for an infection, such as urethritis. Please be evaluated and let your doctor know your symptoms. You may need to have cultures taken for possible infection. If you develop increased pain, discharge, pain with urination, abdominal pain, fever, or vomiting, then you must be seen immediately.