Why interfere at all
It's natural for parents to anticipate the highs and lows their kids feel and want to buffer some of the down times.
You seem happy with some of this adoration. But your own feelings may reflect disapointments, separation, losses that you were told to iignore as a child.The greatest way for a child to grow emotionally is to be validated for true feelings. Feelings are never good or bad they just are.