I have borderline lupus and all over numbness what do you think?

Perhaps not lupus. First of all, to be clear, there is no such thing that we recognize as borderline lupus. You may have a low positive ANA test, which by itself does not mean anything and is usually over interpreted by physicians and patients alike. As for the numbness, lupus can cause a small fiber neuropathy (skin biopsy can diagnose) but usually not bodywide. Would think of conditions leading to a neuropathy.