Forgive the stupidity of people and assume they are somehow trying to help you maybe by their comments.
Being overweight can be troublesome as you get older from a medical standpoint, leading to increased heart disease, diabetes, arthritis, asthma, sleep apnea, etc. Etc. So slowly take their stupid comments and let it help build up a want inside you to try and lose weight. Ask dr. For advice too.
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