I know a few tricks. There are a few tricks to swallowing pills: 1) try to practice with small candies, like m&m's or tic-tacs, 2) always take pills with a drink or water. Trying something sweet like orange juice can increase saliva and help you swallow. 3) you have no taste buds under your tongue, so if you place a bitter pill under your tongue and then swallow it with water or juice, you won't taste the pill at all.
See a Psychologist. A true phobia such as this usually requires professional help. Realize that you are not "crazy." you are just looking for help to overcome an annoying restriction on your life.