How do you get rid of dislocated shoulder pains, other then with medication and ice?

Therapy. Therapy to strengthen the muscles around the shoulder can help decrease thevain after a dislocation. It can also help restore lost motion. If all that fails an arthroscopic procedure may be needed.
Time. As far as pain is concerned, patience and time are needed. Eventually pt can be helpful. You could try alternative or nonconventional treatments such as acupuncture or hypnosis.