Is honey safe for women with benign breast conditions?

Yes. Actually honey has a lot of good properties and is beneficial for many a conditions. There is no problem with honey in moderate amounts in benign breast conditions.
Yes. I am not aware of any association of honey and breast conditions. Some older reports possibly indicated increased breast discomforts from high caffeine intake, and less breast discomfort with vitamin E intake, but I do not know if there is still much belief in in the old reports.