What is the appropriate time and how to tell someone that you have condyloma?

Oral Cancers. Mounting evidence suggests causal relationship between hpv and oral cancers. The hpv virus which is responsible for genital warts has recently been implicated (although evidence has been mounting for 1-2 decades) that the same hpv virus (especially subtypes 16&18) are responsible for oral cancers.
Ask ur conscience. Perhaps the time is when you first consider having intimate contact and are ready to hand out condoms. For additional input, I will also refer this to our surgery and urology experts, obgynecologists, baby doctors and mouth and throat experts. They all see patients with condylomata.