Someone get help here for sexual dysfunction?

Experts make it work. If you go to an expert, the overwhelming odd are that you can be helped. If your doc says, "try some viagra (sildenafil) or androgel" with no other questions, no other evaluations, then you are not dealing with an expert. There are a wide variety of treatments beyond viagra (sildenafil). Stress can be one of the hard to treat causes, but medical issues can be identified and treated with great success.