21 doctors weighed in:
What motivates someone to get over drug or alcohol addiction?
21 doctors weighed in

Dr. Steven Reidbord
Psychiatry
8 doctors agree
In brief: "hitting bottom"
People in alcohol recovery (aa) say that addicts have to "hit bottom" before they accept the need to change.
This varies from person to person... It could be a spouse leaving, losing a job, a medical complication, getting arrested, etc. Whatever it is, the person can't accept it, and becomes motivated to stop using the addictive substance.

In brief: "hitting bottom"
People in alcohol recovery (aa) say that addicts have to "hit bottom" before they accept the need to change.
This varies from person to person... It could be a spouse leaving, losing a job, a medical complication, getting arrested, etc. Whatever it is, the person can't accept it, and becomes motivated to stop using the addictive substance.
Dr. Steven Reidbord
Dr. Steven Reidbord
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Dr. Alan Ali
Psychiatry
6 doctors agree
In brief: Motivation
Insight into dangers of addiction re.
Health, job, family, finances, legal ramifications, and overall functioning.

In brief: Motivation
Insight into dangers of addiction re.
Health, job, family, finances, legal ramifications, and overall functioning.
Dr. Alan Ali
Dr. Alan Ali
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Dr. Alan Ali
Psychiatry
5 doctors agree
In brief: Motivation
Family, health, financial, social, loss.

In brief: Motivation
Family, health, financial, social, loss.
Dr. Alan Ali
Dr. Alan Ali
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Dr. Jeff Blixt
Addiction Medicine
5 doctors agree
In brief: Anything
I saw a guy today addicted to alcohol, Cocaine and opiates for 15 years daily use, 2 weeks ago he promised his daughter he would be home in time to put her to bed and did not make it as he was on a Cocaine binge.
Obviously had 100's of other family "let downs" prior. But this particular episode was his moment of clarity. Never too late, but be honest withself early.

In brief: Anything
I saw a guy today addicted to alcohol, Cocaine and opiates for 15 years daily use, 2 weeks ago he promised his daughter he would be home in time to put her to bed and did not make it as he was on a Cocaine binge.
Obviously had 100's of other family "let downs" prior. But this particular episode was his moment of clarity. Never too late, but be honest withself early.
Dr. Jeff Blixt
Dr. Jeff Blixt
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Dr. Ragan Faler
Dentistry
4 doctors agree
In brief: Lose everything
People will only get sober when they are ready.
Sometimes that means the pain of staying in the addiction is greater than the pain of getting sober. For some, it's that consequences have finally gotten so bad, that they are willing to go to any means to get sober. Most will get divorced, lose a job, family, all their money. Hopefully they don't have to lose their life. Some will.

In brief: Lose everything
People will only get sober when they are ready.
Sometimes that means the pain of staying in the addiction is greater than the pain of getting sober. For some, it's that consequences have finally gotten so bad, that they are willing to go to any means to get sober. Most will get divorced, lose a job, family, all their money. Hopefully they don't have to lose their life. Some will.
Dr. Ragan Faler
Dr. Ragan Faler
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Dr. Bob Stewart
Clinical Psychology
2 doctors agree
In brief: Motivation to change
Includes: look at use pattern (keep a log), identify consequences, list reasons to change, rate motivation for each reason (0-10) & develop those 8+, build confidence by listing personal successes overcoming challenges, describe benefits of change, set goals, develop a plan, measure progress, & work with supportive people & knowledgeable professionals.
Hitting bottom just means ready to change.

In brief: Motivation to change
Includes: look at use pattern (keep a log), identify consequences, list reasons to change, rate motivation for each reason (0-10) & develop those 8+, build confidence by listing personal successes overcoming challenges, describe benefits of change, set goals, develop a plan, measure progress, & work with supportive people & knowledgeable professionals.
Hitting bottom just means ready to change.
Dr. Bob Stewart
Dr. Bob Stewart
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Dr. Alan Ali
Psychiatry
1 doctor agrees
In brief: Motivation
Guilt, shame, fear after losing everything.

In brief: Motivation
Guilt, shame, fear after losing everything.
Dr. Alan Ali
Dr. Alan Ali
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