Can be hard
Probably the best way is to commit to, and keep working on, your program. If you're in a 12 step program, excellent.
You can get a sponsor and work your steps. People who abuse drugs & alcohol
often hurt people close to them, and those people can be self-protective. It can be hard for you to be patient, but they probably need time to observe what you do. As the saying goes, "easy does it.".