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Does your vaginal hole have to be stretched by fingering or tampons first in order for you to have sex? Or can you just have sex with no stretching
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Dr. Michael Sinclair
Family Medicine
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In brief: Just be gentle
Stretching is not required, but foreplay (sexual stimulation prior to intercourse) is very helpful, especially if you have not had much or any sex in the past.
Foreplay that causes sexual arousal will allow your vagina to stretch during intercourse. Forced stretching with a finger not related to arousal or foreplay may be painful and very counter productive. If "fingering" is pleasant, then its ok.

In brief: Just be gentle
Stretching is not required, but foreplay (sexual stimulation prior to intercourse) is very helpful, especially if you have not had much or any sex in the past.
Foreplay that causes sexual arousal will allow your vagina to stretch during intercourse. Forced stretching with a finger not related to arousal or foreplay may be painful and very counter productive. If "fingering" is pleasant, then its ok.
Dr. Michael Sinclair
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Dr. Jimmy Lin
Internal Medicine
In brief: Probably Ok,but hurt
It probably would be tight and so hurt a lot especially if it is not being entered at all.
By stretching a little it would be more comfortable for the female partner especially if the penis is large size.

In brief: Probably Ok,but hurt
It probably would be tight and so hurt a lot especially if it is not being entered at all.
By stretching a little it would be more comfortable for the female partner especially if the penis is large size.
Dr. Jimmy Lin
Dr. Jimmy Lin
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