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Both virgins.We been tryingsex bt it hurts and I feel a tearing feeling so I make him stop even fingering hurts. Why? Anyways to make it easier?

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Dr. Jon Ahrendsen
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It is not uncommon for some discomfort with the 1st times of intercourse.
But if you are becoming sexually active it would be a good idea to see a dr. Who examines female patients. There are differences in women's anatomy, & the hymen area can have a wide variation in size in women. You might also want to make sure there is adequate vaginal lubrication either natural or artificial.

In brief: Best 2 See a doctor

It is not uncommon for some discomfort with the 1st times of intercourse.
But if you are becoming sexually active it would be a good idea to see a dr. Who examines female patients. There are differences in women's anatomy, & the hymen area can have a wide variation in size in women. You might also want to make sure there is adequate vaginal lubrication either natural or artificial.
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