Both virgins. We been tryingsex bt it hurts and I feel a tearing feeling so I make him stop even fingering hurts. Why? Anyways to make it easier?

Best 2 See a doctor. It is not uncommon for some discomfort with the 1st times of intercourse. But if you are becoming sexually active it would be a good idea to see a dr. Who examines female patients. There are differences in women's anatomy, & the hymen area can have a wide variation in size in women. You might also want to make sure there is adequate vaginal lubrication either natural or artificial.